Who’s easier – women in their 30s or 20s?

Recently, I read an article that addressed this very question. After reading the article, written by a man, I thought about the many different views that are out there as it relates to women and promiscuity. Even in this day and age, the debate over sexual equality continues.
I could talk all day about how men and women are more equal than most may think when it relates to sexual equality, but that is a different subject entirely.

The question today is: Who’s easier – women in their 30s or 20s?

Before posting this post, I pose this question to a few friends, and one answer seemed to really hold my attention. Hopefully it will hold yours:

He said:

TRUST ME! I can safely say in my experience that women in general are much more full of s**t than men. They also have a veritable checklist they must go down before they give the green light for sex! Being a nice guy, good looking, and smart with a good job just gets you past the preliminary phase these days. Finding a woman that isn't in a bulls***t phase of her life is the true challenge and unfortunately women in their 30s usually are in that phase because they've been burned by a divorce or "some guy" who they can't get over for whatever reason. So if I am looking for sex with no headaches attached, I am safer looking at the women in their 20’s.

She said (me – of course):

I would say that my opinion is just the opposite. Most women, especially those in their 30s, are past the bulls**t stage. In fact, that is part of the reason that it may appear that they don't know what they want; when in fact - they know exactly what they want. I think most women at my age, can see right through most of the bulls**t and that is why they don't just fall all over themselves and every guy that comes in their path.
When you are twenty something, you are excited about every new relationship. However, most twenty year olds are somewhat selective, and things like good looks and money are all that concerns them. Anyone who comes with whatever they think they want at that point in their lives - they go for. In other words, most men are being used by women in their 20s - the twenty somethings that are worth getting to know anyway.

Thirty somethings, however, are probably not trying to use anyone. They are looking long-term, and don't have time to waste on the "right now." They are looking for someone that can make them happy for the rest of their lives. With that being said, they are probably even more selective then when they were twenty. If good looks is what they want, they are not willing to settle for someone they do not find attractive. They are probably more than capable of taking care of themselves financially, so if money turns them on - he better have more than just a little. I think women in their thirties have pretty much tried it all, so they know what they want and -if single- they are waiting and searching for their complete package.

However, as it relates to this question – I would have to say that it may be easier to sleep with a woman in her 30s. As mentioned before, women in their 30s know what they want – even if that is just sex. We realize that sex does not make the package; it’s just one of the many ingredients.

To the men – just because you have her sexually, does not mean you have her. In fact, if it was real ‘easy,’ she may not have any more plans for you. Oh - you thought that rule only applied to women…. No, men also are judged on how easy they are….