Is that your “GUT” talking?

I think all women, not just single mothers, suffer from temporary loss of plain ole good sense when it comes to a man. We want to listen and trust our hearts to lead us down the right path to a successful relationship. And that’s fine as long as we consult our brain and that gut feeling that we seem to get from time to time.

As women, we will wreck our brains trying to figure him out. We will look for patterns and swear we know his next move. We want things to be spelled out in black and white, but the truth is – many times all we need to know is what we already know. Maybe he’s not cheating, but he still does not give you the attention you need. So does that make it ok? “NO!” In a relationship, both parties have a responsibility to give each other what they need. It’s ok to address your gut feeling because many times that’s all that needs to be done to fix an uncomfortable situation.

Let’s call it a woman’s intuition! And although we should never allow it to take over to the point that we don’t see any good in the man we chose or so much that we run him off, we also shouldn’t discount it completely. Is your gut trying to tell you something?